Dealing with fools

As spiritualists, we often encounter fools. It is not necessary, however, to be a spiritualist to encounter fools.

Whether you’re a doctor, or a policeman, a teacher, or a nurse, a lawyer, an engineer, a manger, or a businesswoman, an actress, or a playwright, a mathematician, or a musician… no matter which field you are in, you are bound to encounter fools.

You know, the kind of individuals, who haven’t put in a tenth of the effort you have, who don’t know a hundredth about a subject you know so well. These individuals might try to give you unsolicited advice, they might try to correct you, or end up inventing new ways of being foolish.

But let me focus on the fools I meet often while out there sharing the spiritual knowledge with others… there are the souls who will suddenly feel the urge to enlighten you on their ignorance.

  • The soul who wanted to prove he was God
  • The soul who got angry when I didn’t accept that he was self-realized
  • There was one soul who was really really caught up trying to prove that his misunderstanding was really the correct understanding
  • The other one who was out to show me how I was “just a blind follower”.
  • The fool who was intent on proving my simple, humble and honest but exalted spiritual preceptor wrong
  • The one who thought that I was going to hell for not following him
  • The ones who advise me not to waste my time, not to waste my life.
  • The ones who have all the time in the world to waste my time and energy trying to draw me into a conversation I do not wish to be part of
  • And so many more.

When I was younger and more naive, I actually tried to reason with these people. I tried to help them, to serve them, to hear them out. But that didn’t go so well. I ended up really bruised and battered (metaphorically speaking), and after all that trouble, they didn’t end up any better than before.

Why is that?

As Srila Prabhupada said often…

Mūrkhāya upadeśa hi prakopāya na śāntaye (Hitopadeśa 3.4). If you teach lesson to a foolish person, he’ll be simply angry. He’ll not take your lesson. How it is so? Payaḥ-pānaṁ bhujaṅgānāṁ kevalaṁ viṣa-vardhanam. If you keep a snake and if you want to make friendly behavior with him, that “My dear snake, don’t bite any more. I’ll give you milk and banana. You eat here and stay here nicely,” he’ll not . . . His poison will increase, and one day he will . . .|panam|bhujanganam

See, they weren’t trying to get help, they were trying to add me to their ranks!

So I decided to follow this advice from one of my teachers… “The first rule in dealing with fools and fanatics… DON’T”.

And even though a fool will surely insist on having the last word, hurl that last insult, write that last hateful email, the best thing in spiritual life, even life in general is, to just let them go. Even if they end up thinking you are a fool!

Author: Mahabhagavat Das SDA

I am a formally initiated disciple of His Grace Sriman Sankarshan Das Adhikari. My spiritual master was initiated by His Divine Grace A. C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada in 1971. He is the author of the famous Ultimate Self Realization Course. Check it out at

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